Megan's got 47

It's a bus.  We all know we need to stop when a bus is picking up or dropping off a child. 
It is worth the extra 30 seconds of waiting because here is what will happen if caught in PA:

• 60-Day Driver’s License Suspension
• Five (5) points on your driving record
•  $250 Fine

Need more information on bus law's? Click here.

Save a life.  Slow down.  STOP for crying out loud!  She deserves to be safe!

Waiting for her bus

When Megan was 3 we signed her up for her 1st dance class. Boy was she a trouble maker.
Dance Class - Year 1 - see video from year 1

I had gone around to a few studios to try to find the right fit for Megan.
1st studio we went to everything from the walls to the floor was brand new. The owner said, those mirrors are really expensive, she cannot touch them.  My response, "Well what about licking...I think she might lick them"...She had a look of horror on her face so the 1st studio was out!
2nd Studio told us they did not have a "special needs class"....well I was looking to put her in just a regular class but there were a hundred other dance studios, if that's what they are assuming I will check them off my list. 
3rd place, the little old lady took time with Megan and didn't assume anything.  Told us the information we needed, so we signed up.  Megan learns by example and the teacher although sweet was too bruised and beat up to teach from standing so she would sit in a chair and teach.  Well what do you think Megan did during class?  She did all her dancing from the floor.  We spent the 1st year of dance at the studio but they went under and couldn't even give me the DVD I ordered or t-shirts.

So I cut my losses and moved on to The Dance Academy.  It would be Olivia's 1st year to dance and I wanted to find a place to call home....no more looking!  My aunt Jill had taken her daughters to this studio so I knew it had to be a wonderful place.  After our 4th year at the Dance Academy I can say for certain we found a place where I know Megan will graduate from.  I can envision her on that stage her senior year, not a dry eye in the auditorium as she does her senior solo.

Every one of the people, staff and teacher's at TDA LOVE Meg.  I think of her as the mayor! She leads impromptu team building classes in the foyer.

She walks in and immediately seeks out to find her BJ.  BJ has been Megan's jazz teacher for 2 years.  She admires him.

BJ Byrne

I think she wants to grow up and be his assistant.  She always wants to help him or find out what he is working on.  BJ is the perfect teacher for Megan.  He understands that she will be a step or two behind but she always knows his dance.  He makes sure of that.  He has high expectations of her and that is important to me.

Meg and BJ after recital

And then there is Donnajean, she is the owner of The Dance Academy.  She has taught Megan tap for 3 out of the 4 years.  She is an amazing human being.  Kind with words.  A sweet disposition.  Exactly the person I was looking for when I went on my dance teacher hunt 5 years ago.
Megan truly has blossomed as a dancer in their care.   Our experience there is one I wish for all my friends out in the Down Syndrome community to find.  Don't give up! Keep looking because you will find that dance studio that see's your child as a potential dancer and not a diagnosis.  When you find that, hold on tight and treat it well!

DonnaJean with Megan and Olivia

Tonight our studio can start receiving votes for Philly's Hot List as the best dance studio in the Philadelphia area.  Please Vote for them! Help them win what they so much deserve! You can do the voting through Facebook.  Here is the link. Voting starts at midnight tonight!
Thank you in advance for voting!

Megan with her sister and friend Sophia

Megan and her sister Olivia before dance recital

Megan with her sister and brother in Cape May, NJ

The Down Syndrome world has changed a lot since I last logged on here. My entire back ground (that I paid for) had disappeared along with the friend who created it.  Oh well, I have learned a thing or two of my own over the years I have been gone so it served my purpose setting this blog back up.

Facebook... I am on all the time but I do not know my DS friends on there...it does not compare to my days on Downsyn.  Love ya TOM!!! Facebook is overwhelming and I feel bad saying I should probably delete anyone I do not know.  I have over 100 friends waiting to be added with 160+ mutual friends from the DS world (overwhelmed)....I have huge guilt leaving them there too.  I do remember a handful of my facebook friends from Downsyn and they mean THE WORLD TO ME! Although I do not talk to you everyday like I used to you all have a HUGE part of my heart and have taught me so much! I would do anything for you guys!

Ever since Megan went to school full time I took a step back from the internet....never thought I would.  I had seen others when Megan was younger do the same and was always astonished how they could be so involved online one minute and absent the next...but now I understand.  Life gets in the way, interests change, people change, needs change...and so I do not log on to Downsyn like I used to.  I was always impressed by the stars next to my name for the years I had been a member/the # of posts that I had/being in the Top 10 posters next to Amy, Vonda, Renee and Jo. But that has changed....I am grateful for my time there but it is like passing a torch...you cannot carry it forever, you need to pass it on to others.

I do not plan on making any promises about keeping my blog up to date but I will try to come back from time to time to talk about what is going on in Megan's life.  I do see I still get traffic on here and I feel compelled to at least post pics and accomplishments.

If anyone is interested you can follow me on twitter or Instagram.  I will add a button for those in the sidebar soon :)